A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted Holds True Every Time

a fool and his money are soon parted

Updated: August 2022

A fool and his money are soon parted. This has always been true, and it will continue to be true. Think back to the days of the notorious scammers such as Charles Ponzi, Bernie Madoff, MMM, Amway, and Herbal Life. The list goes on and on. The reason why? There are always vulnerable people who fall for them.

Sheldon Cooper on “Bing bang Theory” described cryptocurrency as money that you can’t see, hold, or spend on anything. Simple and true for the most part, but it continues to boggle the mind as to how many people fell for this genius Ponzi scheme.

The fallout has begun as the crypto rage has decimated a lot of peoples’ financial worth. Stories of victims who cashed in their retirement portfolio to invest in crypto as they got swept up by the waves of people professing to make millions overnight (and in fact, probably were since it’s the people at the bottom who fund their gains).

I often think of this famous saying because l am constantly surprised at how seemingly smart people keep falling for scams over and over again. You only have to read your Facebook feed or check out Reddit to see so many examples. Horror stories are everywhere.

A fool and his money are soon parted:

The old adage “If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is” should be words to live by for everyone. One online friend was lamenting the fact that she had been scammed for $700 plus her camera. I asked her what happened. She had been ashamed to share it for so long because she realized that greed got the better of her. This is how she was scammed.

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She placed an ad on eBay looking to sell a camera for $450 which was a good price. She was contacted by someone who wanted to buy it and was going to send her a cashier’s check. They chatted back and forth for a few days and he agreed to buy it.

The guy later contacted her to say the bank had  “mistakenly” made the check for $1300. He didn’t notice it till he got home..blah..blah..blah. For her trouble and inconvenience, he told her to keep an extra $150 and just send him back the excess $700. Her greed prevented her from seeing how ridiculous the whole thing was.

Firstly, nobody gives you money for free, certainly not that much for a little mistake. Secondly, she should have insisted that the buyer purchase the item through eBay. Had she done so, she would have been protected and gotten given a refund, thanks to the Buyers protection Program they offer.

By conducting the transaction away from the platform, she forfeited that right. She argued that the bank should have told her the check was fake and stopped it. I told her the bank cashes a check if the customer has enough in their account to cover the check amount as a courtesy.

For instance, if her account balance was in excess of the $1300, they cash it. If the check bounces for any reason, the money is deducted from her account and she is on the hook. On the other hand, if for instance, her balance was below the face value of the check, let’s say she had a $500 balance,  a “hold” for $800 is put on the check and she can only access the rest of the money once the check clears.

Thinking she was making a nice little profit, she mailed her camera, and wired $700 through Western Union to some stranger who l’m sure was extremely happy. He had gained her confidence with the online chatter, they don’t call them con men for nothing!  Of course, the check bounced and the money was deducted from her bank account. A very expensive lesson for her to learn.

The moral of the story is “A fool and his money are soon parted”. Be vigilant with your hard-earned money. Put it in a 401k or retirement fund. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. A quick internet search would have alerted her to this very common scam.

They have been going on for years. Even for the tech and internet savvy people, these scammers have become so sophisticated, that it gets harder to detect them. Another friend almost got scammed recently when looking to rent an apartment. This scammer was so good, he had the AirBnB logo on his listings and convinced my friend to wire a deposit into a bank account.

My friend called me excitedly as they had been looking for a while and this looked so good. I asked for the listing and went to check it because l am nosy like that 🙂 . Everything looked good, but when you go to click on the pictures, the links wouldn’t work. I called my friend back and told him.

He called the 24hr line for AirBnB so they could repeat what l told him. You need to pay on the Airbnb platform and they had no such listing. He was very lucky as the bank had already closed and he was doing it first thing the next morning.

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Be vigilant because a fool and his money are soon parted:

I get mad when l read stories about the Nigerian prince scams that people keep falling for in this day and age. Wake up, people! Rarely are the princes from Nigeria anymore either, they are your neighbors :-).

The sad part is that they often prey on older people who have limited funds to begin with. Keep your wits about you all the time. Take the advice with a grain of salt and pay the consequences later on.

The reality is that there will always be some thieves who will come up with the next great Ponzi scheme, and you can bet that there will be more victims who lose their life savings. The urge to get something for nothing is too great. We all know that nothing is ever truly free.

Hard work and stepping up your financial literacy game are the way to go. Don’t ever lose sight of this and avoid being swept up in the next craze that is sure to come. If you’re going to wade into anything so callous, make sure that it’s money that you can afford to lose and not one that will endanger your financial well-being.

It is now clear that a recession is coming, if not already here. This is not the time for risking it all. You might as well head to Vegas and blow it all. The end result will probably be the same. Actors are not financial gurus, they are just paid shills.

Have you or anyone you know fallen victim to any of these scams? Remember that a fool and his money are soon parted.

8 thoughts on “A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted Holds True Every Time”

  1. I wish I could say none of my clients ever fell prey to these scams. But, then, again, about a dozen clients crossed our transom because they were so afflicted. So (from our point of view), it hasn’t been a total loss. (I can’t say that for the clients…)

    • Sometimes, it’s like people are begging to be scammed because they ignore all common sense and a different emotion takes over. Goof for your business though, so l guess it’s not all bad. 🙂

  2. She should have waited for the check to clear, and then she’d have known it was a scam. I almost fell for one when I was younger. I saw it in a magazine, I think. It was an offer of a loan through a company that wasn’t a bank. And the conditions for it were very tempting, but when I called to find out more about it, and asked how I could be sure it wasn’t a scam, the guy laughed. That was all I needed to know!

    • Yep! She should have. I think the fact that he had chatted on and off and was so nonchalant about the whole thing made hime think he was legit. Same for my friend with the apartment. The guy was like..l have interviewed several people and your answers sound the best…blah blah blah. They gain their trust or at least they lower their guard, then bam! Good for you for realizing the scam :-). Sure he was shocked on the other end!

  3. I’m sorry for your friend, there are so many scammers out there and you have to read and re read everything. When an offer was going around FB about getting a free laptop in exchange for them running ads on it after you received it, I wrote a blog reminding readers not to fall for anything that was asking for your email address AND password among other personal information. Unfortunately many fell for it and ended up getting bills in the thousands of dollars for ads that were placed with the information they sent in. I run when I see anything that sounds too good to be true.

    • Oh my goodness! Can you imagine trying to unravel the mess with the credit card companies? Yes..the old adage, if it looks too good..RUN! applied right there 🙂 . I don’t know why people always expect things for free. I mean who is crazy enough to give you a million dollars, sight unseen for helping them get money out of the country. It’s all kinds of wrong and alarm warnings should go on :-).


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